PROBLEM IS MY FRIEND!

" Without any problem, I was born!
When i was born, my problem is i can't speak?
When i started speaking, my problem is expressing my view?
When i started walking, my problem is things in my home flied away?
When i was about to join kinder garden, my problem is going to school?
When i was in school, my problem is to get through subjects?
When i started passing, my problem is scoring good marks?
When i started scoring good marks, my problem was getting first mark?
These are not my problem, its for other.
Even when i mastered those, my problem is not over!

The real problems commenced,
I am in my teen, my problem is no girl spoke with me?
When girls started speaking, my problem is rumors about us?
When the rumors diminished, my problem is i am in love?
When i proposed my love, my problem is her reply for that?
When we were in love,my problem is parents?
When the news reached our parents, my problem is our decision?
When she stopped loving me, my problem is unforgettable memories?
When i finished schooling,my problem is leaving the school life?
When my school life ended, my problem is my results?
When results came, my problem is college i gonna join?

After joining college, my problem is about new friends?
After identifying my friends, my problem is to enjoy college life without problem?
After started enjoying college life,my problem is to find another girl best suits me?
When i found her, my problem is my lover??????
When i finish my course,my problem is to get placed?
When i get placed, my problem is how to face the world?
After years,
When i got married, my problem is my wife?
When i got a child, my problem is parenting him in a good way?
When he started going school, my problem is he should face the problem i faced?
When i am old, my problem is my health?
When i am in last minute of my life, my problem is the future of my family?
Problems vanished after my death! "

Problem comes throughout my life, why not to call it as my friend?
Thats life!

I don't mean that me must see everything as a problem... As a saying goes, " When you face a problem it indicates you are on the right track of your life". At that stage of life, its challenge rather than a problem.Everyone on earth has problem. So face it, Enjoy every moment of life.

TITLE- PROBLEM IS MY FRIEND - When you accept the problem as your friend, that can be tackled easily. In other words, it changes as Challenge rather than Problem

"Present Relationship is result of Technology" ???

Science is for the Human welfare! Invention is made by human for human. We must control it and the technology cannot take control.

Indian, as country of cultural heritage, has much importance to relationship between people. Indians are the best one you can't find anywhere in the world!. But, because of the increase in the electronic media such as  computers, cell phones the relationship is getting diluted day by day. Days  which all the family member sit together and have their dinner is no longer ?. The time we spend in ground in playing with our friends or chatting is considerably reduced and reducing.

The advancement in science has a numerous advantage besides it accounts to weaken the relationship and numerous other problems. The time we spend with our parents in listening to their experience and sharing about the  scolding from the teachers, stories from grand pa and grand ma, chatting with friends about the girl we met and fighting with brother/sister  are hard to find these days.i.e., reduced comparatively as it was before ????.

"Cell phones and computer networks have made each one an island man".
 
The young boy or girl find it hard to speak with opposite sex when they meet for first time. This is because we lack communication and inter-personal skills and spending money in developing those skills. Instead, as youngster we can change this scenario and make the bonding relationship with us friends, with parents and Grannies’, even they are blood relations, even then the love we have on them is also getting reduced. Due to which the Home age for old ones is getting increased day by day.

The reason is not only because of reduction in love or care towards the parents but the reduction in love or care is because of over commitment to  TV, Cell phones, Internet. As youngster, we can make it happen again the kind of relation we had earlier.

I am not intending to say that we shouldn't use internet, cell phone or TV ,but  we can reduce the time we spend on it.Rather, spent with our loved ones (Parents ,friends, others). Everything in life is possible if we practice it , try and hope for the best.